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Rescuing and Reframing

Screenshot with examples of Rescuing and Reframing, taken from The Great Sex Rescue. Instead of saying "Women need to meet men's sexual needs," say "Each spouse should make the other's sexual pleasure their first priority." Instead of saying, "Boys will push girls' boundaries," say, "You are capable of resisting temptation, and you are responsible to not violate anyone else's boundaries." Instead of saying, "All men struggle with lust; it is every man's battle," say, "Lust is a battle many people struggle with. In Christ, we are no longer slaves to sin but to the Spirit. When the Son sets you free, you will be free instead."

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Founder of Belle Brita and Muddling Through Together, Brita Long either writes or edits all of the blog posts on both websites. Brita has been a Christian feminist for as long as she can remember, and she's grateful for the opportunity to connect with Christian women across the globe.